Making new friends can be difficult for people who are usually introvert! When you cannot express yourself well, people wont be comfortable with you. Now some of them may be extrovert and yet may not have friends. So its actually important to maintain a balance, as far as your behavior is concerned. The following tips may help.
Look, listen and understand people- We humans generally dont like to listen anyone, we are rather impatient to convey what we think, to others rather than knowing what they think. Now, to make new friends, you have to listen to them and get along with them well. You may even need to change a bit to adjust well with them.
Start with people of your gender and proceed with the opposite later- Well this probably applies to guys only. When you dont have good male friends and you start going around looking for some female friends, i tell you, you are going to be a big failure! Ofcourse, this shouldnt be followed strictly. You may make new female friends along with male friends but see to it that you do keep that number low.
Treat your friends equally. Often we have a tendency to treat some of our friends better than few others. This might hurt them and they may leave you. Like in a case of guy, if you just talk with your female friends all the time, your male friends are surely going to leave you someday. So treat every friend of yours equally.
Check out for your type and class of people- People richer and poorer than you may not get along well with you. So its important to be friends with people of your class.
Keep your behavior polite with everyone. Compromising at times may help you to sustain your friendship.
Look, listen and understand people- We humans generally dont like to listen anyone, we are rather impatient to convey what we think, to others rather than knowing what they think. Now, to make new friends, you have to listen to them and get along with them well. You may even need to change a bit to adjust well with them.
Start with people of your gender and proceed with the opposite later- Well this probably applies to guys only. When you dont have good male friends and you start going around looking for some female friends, i tell you, you are going to be a big failure! Ofcourse, this shouldnt be followed strictly. You may make new female friends along with male friends but see to it that you do keep that number low.
Treat your friends equally. Often we have a tendency to treat some of our friends better than few others. This might hurt them and they may leave you. Like in a case of guy, if you just talk with your female friends all the time, your male friends are surely going to leave you someday. So treat every friend of yours equally.
Check out for your type and class of people- People richer and poorer than you may not get along well with you. So its important to be friends with people of your class.
Keep your behavior polite with everyone. Compromising at times may help you to sustain your friendship.
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